Ngenxa yoku, wokuqhawula umtshato libonise a steep kwanda
Ibonisa loluntu iinguquko ezininzi zezinto - agasti revolution kunye yayo yesininzi izimvo, ensuing amashumi amathathu kweminyaka ucinga imfazwe, kwempembelelo yomoya amazwe Empuma Yurophu ngokusebenzisa abuyele ekhaya ka-contractual abasebenzi apho, abazali free kwimakethi uqoqosho kwaye ivula lizwe Entshonalanga - kuba kulinywa nzulu itshintshe amaxabiso esiqhelekileyo usaphoMasibe jonga, umzekelo, kwi-amanani **** kwi-Hai Ba Trung, omnye ezine enkulu izithili lwesixeko Hanoi. Kwi-eliqalela kwi, kwi bonke ka-jikelele, ngaphandle i-iminyaka average ka, amabini anamashumi marriages malunga namakhulu anamashumi - amakhulu amahlanu waphela nge (matyala) wokuqhawula umtshato, oko kukuthi ezimbini divorces kuba wonke ishumi marriages (France: enye ye-wonke ishumi USA: ezintathu kuba wonke ezilishumi). I-alarming umyinge kuba ilizwe apho matrimonial ties zithe ithathwe njengoko ezingcwele kuba millennia. Apha - breakdown ka-yenza kuba wokuqhawula umtshato phezu yokugqibela alithoba eminyaka, ngokunxulumene abantu ke iinkundla: - Incompatibility ka-uphawu. zintandathu - - Ukrexezo.
u - - Usapho mpikiswano.
ezintathu - - Enye partners (umyeni ikakhulu) kuthatha ukuba besela okanye gambling: - Kwezoqoqosho iingxaki. isibhozo - Ukugula okanye infertility. ezine Into info rich ukuzoba ukusuka ngentla. Kwi-iimeko Vietnam, ngokupheleleyo effervescence ukusukela abazali free kwimakethi kuqoqosho, rat ngokobuhlanga kwaye pursuit imali ebolekiweyo kwixesha hectic urhulumente kanti ke ipesenti divorces kuzalwa yezoqoqosho iingxaki kuphela. Uninzi divorces (phantse amane) kuba stemmed ukusuka kwi-ukungqinelana ka-uphawu. Oku, ndiyakholwa, rooted kwi-uhlobo iziko womtshato kwaye kunzima budlelwane nabanye ngawo onke amaxesha phakathi indoda nomfazi. Omnye wenza ka-wokuqhawula umtshato kufuneka zijongwe ngokunxulumene imeko ye-umfazi kwaye usapho ubudala usapho iphawulwe yi-Confucianism: umthetho kabawo, indoda yakhe, indoda ilungu losapho, abo yedwa ayikwazi kuthwala uxanduva isinyanya zokunqula. Wokuqhawula umtshato nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu waba kuyanqaphazekaarely initiated yi-umfazi. I-umyeni kokuba ilungelo hayi kuphela sue kuba wokuqhawula umtshato kodwa kanjalo ukuba umntu oza kufumana kweli wakhe kuba ngomnye ezisixhenxe izizathu. Ukungaphumeleli ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe, kuye abazali mthetho. Malevolent guquguqula. Ubusela. Infirmity. Nangona kunjalo, repudiation khange kwenzeke kwi-ezintathu iimeko. Inkosikazi ndikulo ngokulila kuba lukayise - okanye umama umthetho kuba kufunwa seminyaka emithathu (ngamanye amazwi, yena bebe elikhulu uncedo ukuba umyeni kwi-yokusebenza yakhe filial imisebenzi).
isihlanu - - Engalunganga unyango lwe umfazi
I-umyeni kokuba kuba otyebileyo ukusukela babo umtshato (umz. inkosikazi kokuba kakhulu negalelo lakhe nempumelelo kwabo). Inkosikazi ingaba uya kubandezelwa ilungelo lakhe bonke kuthetha ka inkxaso ukuba wayengomnye repudiated. Okwangoku, Umthetho kwi-Mtshato kwaye Usapho iqinisekisa ukuba inkosikazi ukulingana yamalungelo kunye umyeni, ngakumbi ilungelo buza kuba wokuqhawula umtshato. Masibe kuza emva wokuqhawula umtshato iimeko kwi-Hai Ba Trung wesithili. zintlanu (phantse amabini) divorces ngenxa ukrexezo izakuba inconceivable kwi-ubudala society, ingakumbi ngokubhekiselele kwi-umfazi. I-umyeni akazange kufuneka bathethe ekrexeza kuba waye anelungelo lokuba polygamy. A proverb wathi ayikwazi kuba, ukuba lowo ngoko ke wished,"ezisixhenxe namashweshwe anesihlanu abafazi". Kwi ephikisana, adulterous umfazi waba subjected ukuba inhuman tortures, yesitalato kwaye mental. Yena uya kuba amatsha esebenzisa dolophana kunye emva wakhe neck razed kwaye smeared kunye slaked ikalika (onayo gay boi voi), yalandelwa hordes ka-jeering abantwana. Kukho ibali ukuba ill, phantsi isifrentshi colonial yolawulo, isifrentshi amapolisa oyintloko yanika imvume ukuba i-adulterous umfazi kuba amatsha noku ezitratweni ka-Hanoi kunye u-chitha kerosene cans hanging ukusuka yakhe neck, ngomhla apho i-njengokukhapha umntu ingaba bang ukutsala-wonke ingqalelo. Isohlwayo eso consisted kwi-exposing yakhe kwi raft wakha kunye banana trunks waye kanjalo horrid nye: lo mfazi tightly babotshelelwe kwi ehleli indawo kwaye dressed ngokungathi sele kuba buried. Kwi-phambili yakhe yaba itreyi kunye abanye rice ukutya, teapot, betel bhokisi. I-raft washiyeka ukuya adrift kwi-river, kwaye enye yayo indlela, akukho namnye ingaba dare ukunika a ekuncedeni isandla sam victim, hleze"contagion ka-ukrexezo"uya kuchaphazela eyiyeyakhe zoluntu. I -"adulterous"umhlolokazi ingaba kanjalo kuba wayesohlwaywa. Young babebaninzi abahlolokazi bayakhuthazwa ukuqwalasela engqongqo wokuzigcina unyulu. Izinto zitshintshile elikhulu yaba, ngokukodwa phezu yokugqibela-decade. Ukrexezo ngu-hayi ixesha elide a rare phenomenon, ingakumbi phakathi engaselunxwemeni ulutsha, kwaye akukho namnye eyona nto isenza ka-wokuqhawula umtshato.
Ezinye isenza ukuba ingaba vestiges ye-feudal usapho.
Engalunganga unyango lwe umfazi ngu. zimbini Umfazi beating ingu ndonwabe rhoqo kwi-usuku lokuzalwa lomhlobo wam kwaye suburban villages. Kwezinye iimeko, umfazi izakuba bullied yi-umama umthetho ngoncedo ebafazini ngolo kangakanani ukuba yena babe thatha yakhe ubomi obubobakhe. Kukho iimeko apho abafazi zama ukufumana uid ka-abayeni babo abakhoyo incorrigible drunkards okanye gamblers (. Ezinjalo ingaba umfanekiso wokuqhawula umtshato kwi wesithili we-esilikomkhulu. Ingaba ngayo ibonakalisa imeko kweli lizwe e enkulu. Nawuphi na kunjalo, kubalulekile umqondiso ye-phinda. Molo Angela, mna nje babefuna ukuba uyeke ufuna omfutshane isaziso, njengokuba nathi bafika ekhaya izolo ebusuku ukusuka Vietnam. Zethu uhambo waba amazing, thina wachitha i-unforgettable ixesha lakho.
